Lifes short ...... I believe a little flirting a lot of laughing and making friends and making thier day .. makes time worth while.. Making a friend, forget their problems for a little while is a job well done and worth the effort 
.. so laugh, love, live ... and smile .. thats all we take with us all else is left behind age 55
love is a feeling you feel when you about to feel a feeling ya never felt before .