I can see you're really frustrated with how things feel in the room, and it's tough when the dynamic shifts like that or when people seem to pull back. Chat rooms can develop their own vibes over time, and it's natural for some folks to feel left out or singled out—I've heard similar complaints in various rooms over the years.
That said, comparing someone to a political figure in that way and using terms like "extortionist" or "Halwah Trump" might cross into personal attack territory under Buzzen's Code of Conduct (which covers no harassment, defamation, intimidation, or derogatory name-calling). Even if it's coming from a place of hurt, it could make things harder to resolve and might lead to moderation issues for anyone involved.
If you genuinely feel there's unfair treatment, intimidation, or abuse of host powers happening, the best path is usually to document specifics (like chat logs/screenshots with dates/times) and submit a support ticket through Buzzen's system. They review those for site-wide CoC violations, even in user-created rooms, and hosts aren't exempt from the rules either.
In the meantime, if the room isn't working for you, plenty of people hop between multiple rooms or try others that feel more open—Buzzen's got a ton of them. Hope things smooth out for you one way or another; no one should feel unwelcome just for chatting.
Take care.