Alright so here is whats been going on so I joined this site not to long ago at first everything was going fine. I realized not many people were coming here so I decided to try to bring my friends in here the first to join was a sister of mine who was meet by rude comments and people who wanted to judge us for being family. We had a couple people who have never spoken to us make comments like they are not retaliated, do you guys really believe him and his sister. and many more comments in rude of nature or judgmental stand points. Made by people in there 50s names will not be mentioned. I am gonna say this I would heavily suggest these people To re read the tos and what you agree to when you click yes to joining this site.
It states that all negative comments stalking and harassment of any and all kind is not accpetable here. Also that you can be reported and banned for that in its self. So I wanna say this straight up to everyone who reads this. Dear Harassers I get that you may have been hurt by people there for you prejudge and cast judgemental on those who have done zero to you. But in reality of this I will not take threats, be bullied or be judged for the way I choose to live. Also these people decided to be mean as soon as I changed my sexuality to bisexual inside of my profile. But let me ask you this once and for all How are you being any different from the people who hurt you and pre judged you?
Good question to ask yourself isn't it. No one is forcing you to be this way you choose it and all those bad people who had no right to hurt you end up winning. Its that simple also something i need to state. Why are 50 plus year olds judging and harassing people around 30 I mean come on keep those comments to yourself. We are out of high school I do not know how many times we have said that alone.
Also I will make this comment as well Please no one say what who has a chance with me and who dose not. That is not your call its mine. See i think people forget sometimes there are real people on here with real feelings and people who truly haven't done anything to be treated this way and this is exactly why the site loses people cause its advertised as being very open minded and respectful. Oh and FYI let me make something crystal clear.
Before you go around assuming people are fake or lying do your homework you can reverse image search all photos and reality its 2017 not 2006 anymore just cause people are on social media outlets don't make them fake. Yes I have a instagram 99 percent of the younger group dose. Yes I have a face book I don't like using allot do. So instead of harassing people cause they are fit or any of that or cause you find a photo on a instragm don't make that person fake. However non of my photos are even on instagram I do that for a reason. Also How can you say who is family and who is not you don't have our blood. Only way you know 100 percent is by sitting there and getting our blood and testing it so keep your comments to yourself.
Another thing I wanna say about this matter Its never okay to be mean or cruel to anyone if you don't like someone use the ignore button that is why its there. reality when you ignore someone you can't even see them in the chat. Moral of the story here is act your age. Don't act like a spoiled teen then expect to be treated as a adult.
Message to all those who are being slammed on or harassed reality your not alone and its about time we all put a stop to it. Instead of just letting it happen take a photo of the harassment or copy it and send it to a admin right away or better yet fill out a report inside of the buzzen chat website and put your prove there. Or stay away from the people who allow people to act that way. Not always is the biggest rooms the best rooms sometimes its the most respectful rooms that are the best.
It is not okay to be harassed and to let it go this website full of supportive people who do not act like the bad apples.
Also another thing people understand there is all different types of harassment. Also just cause the harrasment happens in messages or chat or inside of whispering don't make it okay. Call it out to the right channels. There is a ton of times cause the rooms are so busy that admins don't see whats being done. Give the admins a chance to fix the issues.
Oh and worst thing you can do is retaliate back and say something back to them just document it and block them. They lose there power that way.
Also know that you maybe already cared for no matter how mean or aggressive the bully actually is.
Couple facts you need to realize about bullys:
1. They act out cause they want a response.
2. The more you feed them the stronger they become.
3. They judge what they are jelly of or what they can't understand.
4. Homophonic are 99.9 judging you off false pretexts or they are bisexuals or gay themselves and hate themselves cause they cant take themselves with pride. Or for some reason they can't be themselves.
5. They are bored so they just wanna make issues.
6. They hate themselves so they try to take everyone down with them.
How to deal with bullies:
1. Document and report it to the right people
2. Don't be scared of the block button they lose their power. Let them be kicked and banned for keep going. You can not be harassed if you can't see what they are saying and block anyone who is commenting negatively on the comment. Most bullies do not travel alone cause when they are they don't say anything.
3. Realize these people do not know you at all.
4. Surround yourself with people who are friends. Listen to the positive not the negative.
5. Don't react to them they will get bored and move on.
6. (most Important) Never change or let these people run you off there less bullys then people who actually are cool and fun and caring on this site.
