Saw this somewhere and it captures my beliefs precisely:
The sexually dominant man is romantic and seeks a woman's soul. He is less interested in sex than the beauty of one human being submitting to another out of love and the desire to please.
The sexually dominant man loves strong women.
The sexually dominant man is a good friend to women.
The sexually dominant man is faithful.
The sexually dominant man is careful of feelings. To dominate a woman one must first enter her mind. This is his first playground and he must be sensitive to what he finds there. She will not open to him if she cannot trust him with secrets.