Welcome, If you were curious enough to drop into my profile, then read on.
I'm a redhead (shades vary like my moods) and I have the fiery attitude that comes with it.
Chat is my fun place. (Even if I do not say much.)
I work hard and deal with people issues of a wide range, I am a psychologist. I love what I do.
I am very blunt with what I feel and say. It is not my job to sugar coat things for anyone.
"Heavy is the crown and yet she wears it as if it were a feather. There is strength in her heart, determination in her eyes and the will to survive resides within her soul. She is you. A Warrior. A Champion. A Fighter. A Queen."
I want to inspire people. I want someone to look at me and say, "Because of you I didn't give up."
Sometimes the easiest way to solve a problem is to stop participating in the problem.
If you don't love yourself, you'll always be chasing people who don't love you, either.
Share with those people who have EARNED the right to hear your story.
Big egos are big shields for lots of empty space.
You can ask the universe for all the signs you want, but ultimately,
we see what we want to see when we're ready to see it.
"Time changes everything"
That's what people say, it's not true.
Doing things Changes things.
Not doing things leaves things exactly as they were.
Life contains but two tragedies. One is to not get your heart's desire; the other is to get it.
Your love is something valuable which you ought not throw away without reflection.
Tell someone they can do anything and they won't know what to do. Tell someone what they can't do and they'll know exactly what they want to do.
When what you hear and what you see don't match, trust your eyes.
People with low self-esteem are 80% more likely to criticize others or put them down in order to make themselves feel better, tougher, and smarter. But people who are confident with themselves are more likely to take things as they are and enjoy them.
Practice the pause.
Pause before you judge.Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you're about to react harshly and you'll avoid doing and saying thing you'll later regret.
We are human. We are not perfect. We are alive. We try things. We make mistakes. We stumble. We fall. We get hurt. We rise again. We try again. We keep learning. We keep growing. AND
We are thankful for this priceless opportunity called life.
Time has a wonderful way of showing us what really matters.
The 3 C's of Life.
Choices, Chances, Changes.
You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.
You can never make the same mistake twice, because the second time you make it, it's not a mistake, it's a choice.
You are more likely to achieve your goals if you keep them to yourself.
Whatever you are feeling it will eventually pass. You will not feel sad forever. At some point, you will feel happy again. You will not feel anxious forever. In time, you will feel calm again. You do not have to fight your feelings or feel guilty for having them. You just have to accept them and be good to yourself while you ride this out. Resisting your emotions and shaming yourself will only cause you more pain, and you do not deserve that. You deserve your own love, acceptance, and compassion.