No need to ask to whisper, just keep it decent/ I have a few tattoos and piercings and am a plus-size gal, full figured, big, fat, whatever you choose to call it 
I'm not every ones cup of tea, but I don't need to be every ones cup of tea, just one persons cup of tea.
Hairstylists tease it till it stands up!
Live life simply, so others can simply live.
The Dash by Linda Ellis:
I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
from the beginning...to the end.
He noted that first came the date of birth
and spoke the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
all the time they spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved them
know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own,
the cars...the house...the cash.
What matters most is how live and love
and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard.
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what's true and real
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we've never loved before.
If we trust each other with respect
and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.
So when your eulogy is being read,
with your life's actions to rehash...
would you be proud of the things they say
about how you spent YOUR dash?
RIP My brown eyed pretty niece Ashley who left us WAY too soon! 2/7/1988-4/9/2016
Dad © James Brown- Dad is the one who is there, always without question. He is the one who holds us all together, through good and bad. Dad is the one who loves us for who we are and all that we are. He is the one that inspired us to be who we are. Dad is the one who loves us unconditionally.
Dad is the one who chased away the shadows in the dark of night. He is the one who carried us when we could go no further. Dad is the one who guides us, even when he is lost. He is the one who leads the way to ensure the path is safe. Dad is the one whose hands hold ours to comfort us.
Dad is the one whose laugh fills the room with joy. He is the one who smiles and lights up the world. Dads is the voice that echoes in my mind, to lead me on the right path. He is the one I see when I sleep. Dads is the breath that gives us all life.
Dad is the one that held my mother tight, loving her through it all. He is the one that she loved more than all other loves. He is the one who stood strong through all of the pain and tears. Dad is the one that comforts my sorrow, even in his hour of deepest pain.
Dad is the one whose hands were callous from work, whose touch is soft and gentle. He is the one whose heart is tender, whose spirit is loving and kind. Dad is the one whose soul is pure and untainted. His are the hands that I hold to comfort him in his hour of fear. Dad is the one that I love and is part of my soul, always. RIP Dad.......2-18-2013
Don't fall in love with someone who says the right things, fall in love with someone who does the right things on a consistant basis.