~~I am married and only looking for friend's ! notice the YOU ARE ACTIVELY SEEKING... (FRIENDS) friend's of a Dominate controlling nature ....for me this isn't about sex its about my brain and control ... sex though is great ,but second place for me .....
yes he knows I am on here chatting away with people .I am very, very truthful I always have been. i don't hide my feeling's well and if I have something to say i will , but in a kind respectful manner unless you make me mad then who knows lol so basically it doesn't bother him ... I have even asked him ! its ok 
~~so here goes ..... not into dungeons,scat ,being used by numerous men,"LIFESTYLER'S" i just like real life im not in a play or acting a part !
im moody,sensitive,smiley,stubborn,kind,loving,will do anything for anyone and i love to joke around .I do not often come upon a man that can say something that leaves me speechless . this is an amazing wonderful joyous occasion to experience on my part as much as his lol.im unique !! i know this. I like that im different then everyone .... ! im not here to play or talk about how much youd like to tie me up and all that .even though I can take it as a compliment I guess I still don't like it its very uncomfortable to me ... eye contact and compliments freak me out some! my last few comment's were not in a ( snotty tone ) but I can pull that off lol ... if you aren't honest with me since I will be with you don't bother emailing me ... ill find out the lie im good at it lol .... just want some normal people who are kind and firm to talk to and who knows what from there ......I think im just at the point of really not caring truthfully ,I know that sounds bad but if ya knew you'd say runnnnnnnnnn .......maybe tomorrow will be different