After much thought I begin to write. My first instinct would be to say that I do not want my name drawn into the gorean mud by some people who are nothing but armchair quarterbacks sitting back slinging ridiculous accusations while they do nothing to help the world of gorean role play flourish except to stir the drama pot. I will not express anger or lash out or throw a temper tantrum. I am Wren, a baker from the Village of Minus. Not some diabolical dualler out to destroy online Gor. That is just not true. I believe in the principles of honor and integrity both online and in my real life. I will not be bullied or intimidated by an armchair quarterback who cannot get out of their recliner to actually role play and help online be an enjoyable place for all to explore their creativity and experience exciting adventures in the world of Gor.
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Well said but, sad anyone feels it 'has' to be said. I believe the many of US know who are and who are not to be trusted. Just don't play them them. On ignore seems to work best.
Well said, Wren! Play on!
has to add, my advice includes blogging. Less is More.
Baseless accusations are a staple here, and in online Gor in general from my experience. As they aren't likely to go away it would probably be best to adopt a thick skin against them.
Wren I have posted a few blogs on bullying one of which has a number You can call to report anonymously online bullying.If people are doing such yes it helps to grow a thick skin but please please please speak up and speak out for those who are also having a hard time.Online should be enjoyable and when people attack others it's exactly the opposite.
How, exactly, does online bullying apply to a group of consenting adults on a free chat site where they roleplay adult themed concepts? Grow up.
All I know is the rotten bastard who invented bras had never seen a woman with ample assets ride a horse, otherwise he'd have not wasted his time and made for himself enemies of most of the rest of us who have !!
Bullying will be theown up here when someone gets caught doing something they shouldn't be doing or to get out of a situation they have gotten themselves in. It's to bad that here, in an adult chat forum where someone has to comport themselves in a certain fashion. If it's to hard to be a decent person here and if calling foul ever time harsh language is used here. A person has no business being here. It's not that hard to figure out.
that's DEEP buddy
Thierry, you owe me $.59 for a new spellcheck.
Lol. Okay.
Thanks so much Andrasteia. I thought this stuff only happened in middle school. I guess some adults here haven't grown up yet. Slander and false accusations are very serious. They really must lead sad unfulfilled lives in mommy's basement. Time to grow up.
Basement? Oh You wacky Northern folk, You do everything bassackwards....Everyone here in the South knows You keep the family idiots locked in the attic !! Personally I like the view from here !!
Who talks about slander and false accusations in one sentence, and immediately follows it up by "they must be sad little people living in their mother's basement"? Whether you're from the north or south they call that "hypocritical".
**nodding at Ludo Cain's comment** and the 'thats Deep' was for Grym's 'bras' thinking. **waves to Him way up in the attic**
Now Grym I live south of the Mason Dixon line. I suppose that can be construed as hypocritical but so was the comment about me being a dualler, LudoCain.
Be cause in the south not many have basements, just sayin Master. i have heard stories from people that say they left because of online bullying, even offered help. To me if your not willing to let somebody help you and continue to slander folks then it's on you...me personally if i was in the right and was being picked on i would get help to fix it whether it is fixing me or fixing the situation.
Online bullying applies whereever there is online bullying. That someone has reached the age of adulthood by no means ensures that person has also developed the maturity of an adult. Online Gor exemplifies this quite well, which is why it applies here. Still, suggesting that those you are displeased with must lead sad, unfullfilled lives in mommy's basement isn't much different. If you don't like the mud why choose to also wallow in it yourself.
That is true Warren and I do apologize for saying that. I will not wallow in the mud of my self pity. I am deleting the comments on this thread.
Bullying doesn't matter as long as the one complaining about being bullied is the one "bullying" others.