Just a quick little note here. I have my walls up for a few very good reasons. I don't trust easily and I don't share myself with anyone unless I have gotten to know you. If I trust you, then I will tell you about me, the good, the bad and the very ugly. I won't put down my walls just for anyone, but I will for those I consider close friends. But don't get mad if I don't lower my walls for you.........that is my decision and my decision alone.
As a little addition to this blog.....I have learned that when your instinct is telling you to put your walls back up because something isn't right, follow your instinct. Until you know for certain things are as they seem, or until you know things were never the way they seemed, keeping your walls up or putting them back up only protects you in the long run. Always, always trust your instincts!!
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Thank you Papa
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love it! miss you!!
walls are important for people to have to protect themselves from being hurt. If anyone gets upset with you for not putting them down before you are ready to, they are not worth having around
no need to explain anything
you do what works for you and that is what matters
Just hang the right pictures on your walls :-)
Thank you Peter!!!
Thank you avianna, I agree walls are very important. I'm at the point in my life that if people can't understand I will make decisions that are best for me, then I don't need them in my life. I"m thankful and grateful to have a wonderful circle of friends.
Thank you Riggins
I will Vincent!!!
Always Highlander :P
There are so many players out there sasha that you need a wall to keep them out and take ou a brick at a time as you get to know and trust people ..
You are so very right about that Robak. I know a few think I am a chat newbie, but I chatted for a time back on MSN. I have learned to trust my instincts on matters such as this. I am very thankful and grateful to have a wonderful circle of friend that I not only trust, but that I care for greatly. Thank you Robak for your comment I couldn't agree more.
Your welcome sasha..there are people out there thag are worth talking to,you just need to seperate those from the players..hope you enjoy your chat time and keep those you can trust around you in your circle
Again Robak, I couldn't agree more. I am very fortunate to have such a wonderful circle of friends. I thank you for your kind and wise words, they are appreciated. Now if I could just get rid of this insomnia, all would be better, lol.